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These are excellent tips Kristi! I'm reading this thinking "How could I not know these things already?", but I don't. I don't like conferences either. I'm one of the ones who will hide in the bathroom during the break, go back to my room at lunch. I am going to use these ideas for sure.

Good luck in the jungle, may it go well❤

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Thank you! Overall, I’ve had a terrific time and have deepened some of the relationships with people I already knew, but there was a point in the early afternoon when I wasn’t sure how I would make it until the end of the day. Solo breaks help!

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Thanks for the mention, Kristi! I’m really looking forward to chatting to you on Wednesday.

I can associate with your feelings about the conference. Someone else introducing themselves as a fellow introvert would definitely help to put me at ease too!

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Yes! I attended a panel yesterday about Networking for Introverts and Extraverts, and most people there identified as ambiverts, then introverts and finally extraverts. I sat next to an extrovert, who said she’d be riding the high of this event for days, which is mind-blowing.

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Congratulations! I have been there a lot of times, and finding out that like a third or half of the people hate being there at least as much as me has, indeed, made it a lot easier. That's a good tip about wearing something that could be a conversation starter, too.

Alley (partner) is part of an introvert outreach type program at her work, and they actually do a pretty good job of supporting the group. It's really interesting to hear about a small group of introverts supporting one another. 2023 is very different form 1993!

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Lol. We’ve come along way now that we can talk about our introversion. That’s so cool that Alley has a network of fellow introverted supporters. If I still officed, that would be so cool and probably would have prevented a lot of office conflict.

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We're growing! It's weird and exciting.

Mostly weird, though.

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Improv sounds truly terrifying, and amazing, should I ever be brave enough to try (likely not!). Thanks for this post and the mention!

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Yeah, I’m not sure about improv. There was a time I considered Toast Masters to help get me more comfortable speaking in groups, and I still think I would get a lot from it, although it would be terrifying.

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