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Cathi Harris's avatar

"At 49, I’m not sure I’m supposed to still be questioning what I’m doing with my life, but I am."

This resonated with me.

At 52 (almost 53), I now believe we all have different 'lives' to live at different ages and stages. I was single until I was 35, had kids in my late 30s and early 40s, and then left my full-time job to stay at home with my kids. My life at 42 would have been unrecognizable to my 32-year-old-self. And, at 52, I am 'starting over' as an immigrant in a new country. Not something I had planned on doing at all in my 40s. I think, many times, what we were doing in our earlier lives no longer fits the person we become. So we need to figure out a new plan.

I also think it is good to model for your children that your life is not 'finished' once you are older and you just go sit in a rocking chair and dole out advice to young people who are still living life. We can all have goals and dreams and fun things that we want at all stages of life.

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Hannah Ashe's avatar

This sounds like a wonderful break, Kristi, with a good mix of planned activities and rest time. For me, that’s most important in a holiday. I need time to just be.

My husband and I are heading to the south of France for a month in mid July. It will be a mix of holiday and a little working from there but we can’t wait to experience living in a different culture for a few weeks.

I’m sure your break will help to give you some time to ponder on those big questions and guide you in the direction that feels best for you.

Buona fortuna!

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